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The Secret To Meeting HOT Women...
by Joseph Matthews
A QUESTION FROM A READER:
Hey Mr. Matthew's,
I have been in the community for a couple of months, so far I found great success in approaching. I have a challenge when I approach some women, for example there was this three set at this bar two 9's and 8.
My opener was I just moved here, what is fun to do around this city?
They opened up with some what of a smart ass comment, I acted like it did not affect me. Then I went into my routine which is a joke. They came back with a nice try see you later "bitch shield." I don't know if my body language is perceiving me still as a "nice guy" or what. I do know as soon as I can step up to the challenge I will have HB 9 in my life.
The question I have for you Mr. Matthews is, should I not approach these women that are 9's until I am ready or should I have a better routine.
Thanks, Jazz
MY RESPONSE:
Okay, Jazz, here's the thing...
Before I can answer any of your questions, I need to know what your GOAL was.
See, I'm a big believer that if you're going to approach a woman - especially one who's with a friend of hers - you need a GAME PLAN.
In other words: You need to know what you want to accomplish in your approach.
In my bootcamp, which I specially designed to help guys get **REALLY** good at meeting women, no matter how beautiful they are, gives you a really simple goal:
Use your opener, then eject.
The purpose for this is to get you used to walking up to women and talking to them.
It sounds to me like you approached without a goal. And because you didn't know what you were after, you couldn't figure out the best way to handle the situation.
That was your first mistake.
The second mistake was you used the wrong kind of opener with these girls.
The old "I just moved here, what is fun to do around this city" line is so obviously a pick-up line.
And these girls were READY for it!
It's also an opener you can't really go anywhere with. In fact, it's completely dependent on the woman's willingness to help you out.
The purpose of opening a woman is to ENGAGE her quickly and gain powerful rapport.
Your opener did neither.
Your other big mistake sounds like a mix-up in group dynamics. You should know that when approaching two women, you must open the woman you are LEAST INTERESTED IN first, and win her over before trying to engage your target.
But to answer your biggest question...
"Is there a difference in Approaching women who are 9s and 10s on the looks scale..."
The answer to that is: YES.
And if you ignore this difference, you will strike out 10 times out of 10.
Here's the KEY factor in picking up hot-hot women.
Ready?
It's VALUE.
If you come off as some shlub walking up to a 9 or a 10, she's probably not going to give you the time of day.
This is because she has 100s of guys approaching her every hour!
It's up to you to make yourself stand out.
See, when a woman is approached so often by men, she tends to have her "bitch shield" up.
This is a self-defense mechanism that helps to ward of the nuisance horny guys can cause these incredibly beautiful women.
And if she's out in a bar or club with a friend, that shield is amplified by 1,000!
So unless you're incredibly rich, good looking, AND famous, you're going to have a hard time breaking through that shield...
Unless you create value for yourself.
So here's the question: How do you create value?
Answer: By Acting Like You're Not Attracted To Her!
This is where the concept of "Active Disinterest" becomes vitally important.
(For those of you who don't know what Active Disinterest is, shame on you for not reading my book yet! =)
See, when you deal with a "normal" looking woman, (those who range from mildly attractive to really cute, but who aren't drop dead gorgeous), it's okay to flirt a little bit and hint at your attraction.
With 9s and 10s, doing this too soon can ruin your chances.
You have to treat women in the 9 & 10 category as though they were really 2s and 3s on the looks scale.
The reason for this is that if you treat a really hot woman like she's not all that hot, you make yourself stand out from all the other yahoos approaching her all the time!
In essence, you're placing a value on yourself, and lowering her value in the process.
And what does this do?
IT MAKES HER FEEL SHE'S GOT SOMETHING TO PROVE TO YOU, THAT'S WHAT!
And when that happens, you open the possibility to create some powerful attraction there.
But guess what?
You're not going to get anywhere CLOSE to that level of skill, unless you master the fundamentals first!
If you're really serious about gaming 9s and 10s and dating supermodel quality women, you simply have to get my book The Art Of Approaching.
No other course out there will give you the foundation you need to become a real ladies man EXCEPT this course!
You can download it in a few minutes and be reading it in no time flat. Just click the link below now:
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Don't waste another moment floundering around in your love life. Get it together today!
All the best,
Joseph Matthews
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