| Our
education system, study skills, and ideological training
reflect that we live in a capitalist society.
School
largely teaches us to be obedient, have discipline,
follow authority figures, and how to read, write, memorization
skills, and math.
You’re
not supposed to speak to your friends in class; if someone
is speaking, you’re being spoken to by your teacher.
Instead
of working socially in groups, you spend most of your
time solitary behind a desk.
In
other words, school teaches us the skills to be profitable,
obedient workers for management.
Meanwhile,
we never learn social skills and social intelligence
in school – unless by accident. You’re never
taught how to communicate with your peers, let alone
with women. There are no classes in how to deal with
relationships or romance.
Consequently,
most of us come out of school totally dazed and bewildered
as to how to communicate with and attract women.
It’s
no wonder that we find our social intelligence and ability
to seduce attractive women woefully lacking.
The
Great Irony of it All
TENS
of thousands of dollars were spent by taxpayers to send
YOU to primary school and high school. And perhaps your
parents or yourself spent tens of thousands MORE for
you to go on to college. Why?
So
that you could get a good job and make money.
But
from an evolutionary perspective, the whole reason
to get a good job and make money is to attract and mate
with the healthiest females you can, so that you can
successfully pass on your genes.
Here’s
the great irony of it all -
Although
ENORMOUS amounts of resources were spent to educate
you to be economically successful in this world, you’re
not taught the social skills to translate that economic
success into genetic success.
So
although you may be able to sit down at a desk and complete
a task, you may have no idea what to talk about with
women.
Although
you may be able to handle the company’s customers,
you have no idea how to handle a woman.
All
the money, material, and career success in the world
is genetically worthless if you don’t have
the skills to speak with women and get laid!
In
fact, it’s all worth absolute shit!
After
all, wasn’t getting laid with a desirable girl
the whole point of doing well in school and making money
in the first place?
Okay,
given the situation you were born into, what do you
do?
UNDERSTAND
AND TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THE SYSTEM ITSELF.
Think
of yourself as Neo - we’re about to bust through
the Matrix.
Here’s
the key.
Whether
you were born into the ghetto and went to a school where
they couldn’t afford pencils or whether you were
born with a silver spoon in your mouth and went on to
receive a Harvard business degree in management…
We
all received the same, crap-ass education in social
intelligence and women!!!
That
means when it comes to having social intelligence and
seducing women, it’s a LEVEL playing field.
A
broke, average-looking guy who received a high school
diploma, works at Taco Bell, and drives an ’88
Ford Escort can achieve the same genetic success as
the rich, good looking guy who runs a company and has
had hundreds of thousands of dollars funneled into his
education.
While
the guy who was bred for success has his trophy wife
– you can be her lover behind his back!
AND
have a super hottie of your own.
That’s
why it’s so important to CONTINUE your education
and get the education you should have gotten in the
first place – the education that will truly give
you genetic success over any Harvard business degree
would.
Consider
Seduction Science a continuation of the life’s
course for ultimate success that goes beyond money and
power – having beautiful women. (keep reading
for part two of this newsletter - "Avoiding Studyitis")
Without
it, you MAY be able to scrape by in the capitalist system
we live in – you MAY even be able to achieve some
measure of wealth if you have a little luck on your
side and work hard.
But
without it you won’t be able to get the love and
sex from beautiful women you truly want… the kind
of beautiful women that make this whole life worth living
in the first place!
After
all, what good is all the money and all those hours
spent working if in the end they don’t pay off
in spreading your genes with the most desirable women?
What’s
messed up is that guys who don’t see this, guys
stuck within the ruling belief system fed to them through
school and through advertising – will keep working
themselves to death to buy that new car, get that better
job, buy women who don’t sleep with them expensive
gifts – and live in a sexual desert, working like
slaves... for nothing! …or at best for finding
a girl they merely settle for.
YOU
however have the tools to blow out of that reality and
run roughshod over the competition!
Avoiding the School-Taught Trap of
“Studyitis”
Our
educational training lets us down in another way.
It’s
called “studyitis” and it has its roots
in the capitalist system’s need for a particular
type of worker and the education system’s attempt
to meet that need.
Capitalists
want workers who can sit down and complete a task. They
want workers who can identify a problem and come up
with solutions. For others, capitalists want workers
who can stand at the assembly line or behind the cash
register, follow directions, show obedience, and repeat
the same tasks over and over. None of these tasks involve
much human to human interaction or social skills.
So
our education system is heavily geared toward solitary
“book” study.
You’re
continually rewarded for solitary book study –
you do your solitary book homework and you get positive
feedback – the coveted “A” grade.
You do your job’s solitary tasks well and you
get more positive feedback – perhaps you eventually
get a raise.
This
positive feedback loop for solitary, mental, book study
is instilled in you since you were six.
And
for getting by and making money - it works.
However,
when it comes to learning social skills, social intelligence,
and seduction, this same method of solitary book study
will not get you success with beautiful by itself.
You
can’t become a ladies man by reading books and
studying alone.
You
need to spend a minimum of 30% to 70% of your time out
in the field, approaching women and getting real world
experience.
However,
a lot of guys picked up a disease from school called
“studyitis”. They spend all of their time
indoors reading, memorizing, and analyzing.
They
feel like they have to be 100% “prepared”
before ever approaching a woman.
This
techniques works well when taking a test or giving a
company presentation.
But
it doesn’t work for approaching and interacting
with women.
Becoming
good at seduction requires real world PRACTICE in interacting
with women. You actually need to go out there and
use this stuff. You need to get real field experience.
It’s
the only way to *fully* rewire your brain. Sitting at
a desk all day studying every permutation and possibility
of what could happen just won’t do it.
So
how do you become a world class lady’s man?
Sure,
you DO need to spend SOME time doing independent study
to get the methods, theories and ideas in your head
– so that you’re not flying blind.
But
you ALSO have to compliment that study with lots of
practice in the field. You have to go through the physical
and emotional motions for the theories to really cement
in your mind and become living, breathing knowledge
that you understand on an intuitive level, not just
a theoretical one.
In
conjunction with book study and field experience, you
can also do visual rehearsals and hypnosis.
Through
visual rehearsals you re-enact the real, positive experiences
you’ve already had and relive them again and again
in your mind. It’s like you’re hallucinating
the positive experience again and again to solidify
it. You can even imagine the events in different permutations
to try out new techniques in your mind – kind
of like a hallucinatory “choose-your-own-adventure”
book.
Also,
hypnosis can further solidify what you learn from study,
real field experience, and visualization rehearsals
– by reprogramming your mind below the conscious
surface.
Remember,
everyone’s on a generally level playing field
with their social and seduction skills – at the
bottom. Pull ahead of the rest of the pack, break out
of the Matrix, and get the most beautiful women that
you really want. Seduction
Science, 2nd Edition and the Blissnosis Package are your tickets there.
Derek
Vitalio
http://www.seductionscience.com
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